Love is an action verb...

Here are a few ways to Love:

Listen
Share
Hug
Know
Understand
Accept
Serve
Speak the Truth in Love
Help (but do not enable)
Respect
Encourage (but do not flatter)
Prayers of Blessing and Intercession
Loyalty
Honor
Value
Appreciate :)
Care
Be Real
Be Kind
Be Tender
Heal
Feed
Clothe
Hold
Attention
Listen

CATCH-22

You are crazy to want to go to war, so you are dismissed for being crazy... because you do not want to go to war, which makes you sane and therefore fit for the duty of war.